As children grow up, they will have their own ideas and personalities. But many parents may think that this is a natural or acquired reason. In fact, many parents do not know that their children also lack a sense of security. If parents do not pay enough attention to this issue, it will seriously affect the sound personality of their children. So what are the signs of a child lacking a sense of security?
1. Cowardly and afraid
Some children always seem timid and unwilling to go to school, afraid of their classmates and teachers. Serious ones even dare not look at the teacher and are unwilling to talk to them, lacking confidence in anything.
2. Leaving parents is like two people
When there were parents, this child seemed very sensible, had strong self-care abilities, and was also very polite. But when the parents are not around, it's like a child has lost their soul and can't find that self again.
3. Strong on the outside, fragile on the inside
Some children may appear in communication, and if there is no consensus, there will be verbal confrontation. They are extremely insecure about anything outside and always have a guarded mentality. In fact, such a strong appearance is just a way to protect one's inner fragility.
4. Bite your nails
This behavior is not just a habit of children. Why do they like to suck their fingers when they are born? In other words, it is seeking a sense of support and security.
